{"id":2355,"date":"2022-12-26T19:04:14","date_gmt":"2022-12-26T19:04:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.dianalis.ro\/?p=2355"},"modified":"2022-12-26T19:06:11","modified_gmt":"2022-12-26T19:06:11","slug":"puterea-consta-in-acceptare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dianalis.ro\/english\/puterea-consta-in-acceptare\/","title":{"rendered":"Puterea const\u0103 \u00een acceptare"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Puterea const\u0103 \u00een acceptare, nu \u00een rezisten\u021b\u0103. \u00cen acceptarea a ceea ce suntem \u00een profunzimea fiin\u021bei. A te accepta a\u0219a cum e\u0219ti, cu calit\u0103\u021bi \u0219i defecte, a accepta via\u021ba cu sui\u0219uri \u0219i cobor\u00e2\u0219uri, a-i accepta pe ceilal\u021bi cum sunt, adic\u0103 supu\u0219i gre\u0219elii, schimb\u0103rii sau propriei neschimb\u0103ri e adev\u0103rata putere. Din nefericire, nu am fost \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba\u021bi s\u0103 accept\u0103m. Am fost \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba\u021bi s\u0103 fim competitivi, pentru a face fa\u021b\u0103 unei societ\u0103\u021bi cu preten\u021bii \u0219i standarde. Ni s-a spus s\u0103 facem lucrurile bine \u00eenc\u0103 din primii ani, pentru c\u0103 putem fi de nota 10. P\u0103rin\u021bi, educatori, \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103tori. Ni s-a spus c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 mergem mai departe cu orice pre\u021b, indiferent de sacrificiile f\u0103cute pentru a ne men\u021bine \u00een frunte. De nop\u021bile nedormite \u00een care studiam materii care nu erau \u00een acord cu ce eram cu adev\u0103rat. Ca \u0219i cum lipsea ceva pentru a fi perfec\u021bi. Aveam nevoie de note \u0219i laude care s\u0103 ne valideze. Prea pu\u021bine aprecieri sau deloc pentru ceea ce eram cu adev\u0103rat. Prea pu\u021bin interes din partea celorlal\u021bi pentru ceea ce ne doream.<\/div>\n
Am terminat facultatea printre primii, am fost ceea ce se nume\u0219te “o t\u00e2n\u0103r\u0103 speran\u021b\u0103” care promitea mult. P\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een momentul c\u00e2nd, ai mei m-au \u00eentrebat ce vreau s\u0103 fac \u00een via\u021b\u0103. “Nimic!” Am r\u0103spuns cu glas hot\u0103r\u00e2t, f\u0103r\u0103 ezitare. Mi-am \u00eenfruntat tat\u0103l pentru prima oar\u0103, ie\u0219ind din cursa distrug\u0103toare a performan\u021bei, menit\u0103 s\u0103 asigure validarea \u00eentr-o societate a aparen\u021belor. De fapt, nu \u0219tiam cine eram cu adev\u0103rat, fiindc\u0103, tot ce f\u0103cusem p\u00e2n\u0103 atunci era s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b ca s\u0103 dau bine. Tot ce voiam \u00een acel moment era s\u0103 scriu, s\u0103 dansez, s\u0103 c\u00e2nt la chitar\u0103, pasiuni pe care le-am \u021binut pentru mine, pentru c\u0103, \u00een ochii alor mei nu reprezentau nimic.<\/div>\n
A\u0219a a \u00eenceput c\u0103derea mea \u00een dizgra\u021bie, care, \u00een realitate, fusese \u00eenceputul cre\u0219terii spre ceea eram cu adev\u0103rat. Am plecat de acas\u0103 fiindc\u0103 nu m\u0103 mai potriveam \u00een chenar, fiind considerat\u0103 a fi o ratat\u0103. Am acceptat. Am acceptat neiubirea celor din jur, faptul c\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 atunci fusesem remarcat\u0103 pentru rezultatele \u0219colare ob\u021binute, am acceptat c\u0103 mergeam pe un drum neumblat, c\u0103 puteam s\u0103 cad, s\u0103 m\u0103 pierd. Am acceptat. Nu am opus rezisten\u021b\u0103. Nu am \u00eencercat s\u0103 dovedesc nim\u0103nui nimic. Am \u00eenceput de jos. Schimb\u00e2nd chirii, \u00eencerc\u00e2nd s\u0103 m\u0103 descurc cu pu\u021binii bani pe care-i aveam. A fost cea mai grea perioad\u0103 din via\u021ba mea \u0219i cea mai frumoas\u0103. Perioada reg\u0103sirii de sine. M\u0103 plimbam printre oamenii simpli, eram una cu ei. Am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat \u00een singur\u0103tatea devenirii mele c\u0103 “cerul \u00eencepe aici, jos, chiar de la p\u0103m\u00e2nt, sub t\u0103lpile noastre”, a\u0219a cum at\u00e2t de frumos scrie Andrei Makine \u00een ultima carte “Prietenul armean”.<\/div>\n
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