{"id":2401,"date":"2022-12-26T19:29:28","date_gmt":"2022-12-26T19:29:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.dianalis.ro\/?p=2401"},"modified":"2022-12-26T19:31:07","modified_gmt":"2022-12-26T19:31:07","slug":"dorinta-de-placere","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dianalis.ro\/english\/dorinta-de-placere\/","title":{"rendered":"Dorin\u021ba de pl\u0103cere"},"content":{"rendered":"
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De ce dorin\u021ba de pl\u0103cere continu\u0103 s\u0103 fie at\u00e2t de disputat\u0103? Preasl\u0103vit\u0103 de hedoni\u0219ti, blamat\u0103 de puritani \u0219i de canoanele biserice\u0219ti?<\/div>\n
Pentru c\u0103 e poarta ce duce spre esen\u021ba propriei fiin\u021be. Secole la r\u00e2nd dorin\u021bele au fost cenzurate, \u00eendep\u0103rt\u00e2nd umanitatea de cel mai mare dar oferit de divinitate: darul de a tr\u0103i. Via\u021ba se tr\u0103ie\u0219te sim\u021bind-o prin toate fibrele fiin\u021bei, experiment\u00e2nd pl\u0103cerea. Nu se poate tr\u0103i \u00een absen\u021ba sim\u021burilor. Via\u021ba se simte privind frumuse\u021bile ce ne \u00eenconjoar\u0103, se simte ascult\u00e2nd lini\u0219tea nop\u021bii, simfonia unei zile, se simte gust\u00e2nd din deliciile pe care le ofer\u0103, se simte mirosind parfumul efemer al unei clipe, se simte pip\u0103indu-i netezimea cu care ni se a\u0219terne la picioare.<\/div>\n
Suntem ceea ce dorim, mai mult dec\u00e2t ceea ce g\u00e2ndim, fiindc\u0103 dorin\u021bele sunt mai puternice \u0219i implic\u0103 o mare parte din propria fiin\u021b\u0103. Dorin\u021bele ne definesc, purt\u00e2ndu-ne spre oameni \u0219i lucruri care, astfel ajung s\u0103 reprezinte ceva pentru noi. Cunosc\u00e2nd ce ne dorim cu adev\u0103rat, ajungem s\u0103 ne cunoa\u0219tem, afl\u0103m direc\u021bia pe care ne-o indic\u0103 dorin\u021bele, \u00eendemn\u00e2ndu-le s\u0103 le urm\u0103m. La \u00eenceput sunt multe \u0219i incoerente, \u00eens\u0103, pe m\u0103sur\u0103 ce tr\u0103im \u0219i ajungem s\u0103 ne cunoa\u0219tem tot mai mult, dorin\u021bele se triaz\u0103, se eleveaz\u0103, cap\u0103t\u0103 coeren\u021b\u0103. E o tr\u0103dare fa\u021b\u0103 de noi \u00een\u0219ine s\u0103 ne \u00eendep\u0103rt\u0103m de chemarea lor ascuns\u0103. Mul\u021bi nu o fac datorit\u0103 limit\u0103rilor \u0219i inhibi\u021biilor inoculate de-a lungul timpului, transmise peste genera\u021bii sub forma expresiei c\u0103 “nu se cuvine”. \u00cenlocuind adev\u0103ratele dorin\u021be ce fream\u0103t\u0103 ad\u00e2nc cu dorin\u021bele celor din jur, ale familiei sau prietenilor, cu cele inoculate de societate. Al\u021bii se tem s\u0103 se lase \u00een voia lor, s\u0103 nu piard\u0103 controlul. Al\u021bii ajung la excese, pierz\u00e2ndu-se \u00een tumultul lor. \u00cen realitate, via\u021ba e un risc, \u00eens\u0103 nu tr\u0103im cu adev\u0103rat dac\u0103 nu ne urm\u0103m dorin\u021bele \u0219i nu reu\u0219im s\u0103 le st\u0103p\u00e2nim dac\u0103 nu le sim\u021bim gustul. A lupta cu propriile dorin\u021be ne scindeaz\u0103, sl\u0103bindu-ne.<\/div>\n
Am ascultat recent o emisiune \u00een care se spunea s\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 facem ceea ce ne e de folos. Cred c\u0103 ceea ce ne e de folos cu adev\u0103rat e dictat de ceea ce sim\u021bim cu adev\u0103rat \u00een ad\u00e2ncul nostru, indiferent de ce presupune asta, at\u00e2ta timp c\u00e2t ele urmeaz\u0103 cursul vie\u021bii. Acesta e adev\u0103ratul folos, faptul c\u0103 ne urm\u0103m chemarea, experiment\u00e2nd via\u021ba \u00een toat\u0103 splendoarea ei. Orice altceva dec\u00e2t ceea ce ne dicteaz\u0103 propria chemare ne \u00eendep\u0103rteaz\u0103 de noi, de unicitatea noastr\u0103. Un tr\u0103itor adev\u0103rat e cel care-\u0219i urmeaz\u0103 sim\u021burile, nelu\u00e2nd \u00een seam\u0103 sfaturile celorlal\u021bi. Uneori e nevoie s\u0103 ne risipim, pentru a afla calea spre noi \u00een\u0219ine, e nevoie s\u0103 facem excese, pentru a descoperi calea de mijloc. Ne g\u0103sim propriul centru oscil\u00e2nd \u00eentre extreme p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd reu\u0219im s\u0103 ne stabiliz\u0103m. Personalit\u0103\u021bi de seam\u0103 \u0219i chiar sfin\u021bi au avut o tinere\u021be tumultuoas\u0103, care i-a condus spre des\u0103v\u00e2r\u0219ire.<\/div>\n
Ne des\u0103v\u00e2r\u0219im tr\u0103ind. E singura cale. Izol\u00e2ndu-ne sau ascult\u00e2nd de al\u021bii ne \u00eendep\u0103rt\u0103m de propriul drum, netr\u0103ind ori tr\u0103ind vie\u021bile altora.<\/div>\n
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