We are here to make mistakes, to correct them, to move forward. Not to deceive ourselves with the perfect illusion. We are perfect in our own imperfection. We are perfect when we make mistakes, when we correct our mistakes, when we move forward on our path. From this perspective, there are no mistakes, only attempts by the soul to reintegrate itself, and its reintegration is done through awareness. And for that, we need experiences. Lucian Blaga asked in one of his poems where heaven gets its light from and his answer was that “hell illuminates it with its flames”. That state of well-being that we all strive for can only be achieved through awareness, which comes after the trials we go through, which we call mistakes, because, often, they do not give us a state of well-being, or because we have been told so, or because we saw others who are well and compared ourselves to them, not knowing that they, in turn, went through less good states to reach that state of good. Only after we have evolved and see things with different eyes do we realize that, in fact, those experiences were not actually mistakes, but trials necessary to be able to grow.
\nAll we have to do is to move forward, overcoming the limited state of our\u00a0mind, which divides, separates, limits, not having an overall view. We also need the mental because it helps us survive this reality and for that we need its guidance along the way, but the mental does not help when we want to undertake something, because it assails us with thoughts, often contradictory, from the desire for self-preservation. If we put the mind forward when we want to initiate, we would not end up taking another step, or if we do, we do it in a known direction, in which we make less mistakes, or this does not lead much to evolution.
\nIt is the soul that guides us towards the experiences necessary for our own evolution, and whenever we follow it, guided by reason, we are on our way. It is the soul that, moreover, causes the materialization of experiences in our life, necessary for evolution and that takes us out of the comfort zone, but the mind intervenes and frames experiences in patterns learned from previous experiences, considering them mistakes, which do not prevent us from moving forward . .
\nWe walk, for example, on the same street, where there is a pit. At first, we fall into it, then, along the way, we learn from that experience to get around it, and we no longer fall like we did in the beginning. We have evolved, and thus we have learned to pay attention to potholes and to avoid them if they hypothetically come our way. Therefore, if we had listened to the mind, it would have told us not to go there because it is a pit we have fallen into in the past and it would be wise not to repeat the mistake. If we had listened to him, we would have followed a road without potholes, which would have given us the satisfaction of being perfect. But as long as we have not learned to avoid the pits, the path followed by the mind does not help us to evolve much, but remains with an unlearned lesson, and the conclusion would be not to venture into the unknown, because we do not know what we meet on the way, we better stay in the comfort zone, where we are safe.
\nTherefore, when we fall into a “pit” and stay with the thought of that experience, it is necessary to repeat it, in order to learn the mechanisms necessary to transcend it.
\nThe real winners are those who graduate from the school of life with its challenges, its inconsistencies and its unforeseeable events and who never stop moving forward, knowing that this is the only way they can flow with life.
\nBy living.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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