An authentic femininity expresses what she feels because she is in control of herself and her feelings and does not need to hide because of her insecurities. Expressing one’s feelings does not mean that a woman makes love declarations, especially at the beginning, but to express her position towards certain aspects of the relationship, confessing what she feels. This attitude has two major advantages: on the one hand, the man knows what to emphasize in order to please her, and, on the other hand, he becomes familiar with emotions, thus learning to pay attention to his own emotions, gaining confidence in time and learning to manage her emotions, so that the relationship becomes stronger.
The woman who does not express what she feels, what she likes or dislikes in the relationship, loses the chance to really connect with the one she loves and strengthen her relationship, accumulating expectations, frustrations and reproaches that make the relationship difficult, driving the two apart even if they have feelings for each other.
The need for a woman to verbalize what she feels also comes from the fact that women are much more emotional, they accumulate more emotions than men and it is a good thing to release them. Today, the emphasis is on the physical connection, which means very little compared to the other connections that are established in a genuine relationship, namely the emotional, the mental, and the soul level. A proof of this is that, no matter how much passion there is from a physical point of view, at their first misunderstanding of any kind, in the absence of expressing emotions, it leads to drama, insults and rash words, and, finally, to separation.
Expressing in a feminine way what you feel does not mean reproaching your partner, pointing out his mistakes, or making demands in the form of commanding requests, forcing dates to get noticed and keep him close, which is not at all to the advantage of femininity. A natural femininity is more passive than active, it only confirms what the man initiates. She comes to meet him, she doesn’t look for him in order to notice her. It is an apparently passive and warm passivity, where the call is implicit and not explicit, it is not a cold and glacial passivity.
Expressing emotions thus prevents the blocking of stagnant emotions, which lead to increased tension between partners. First of all, it would be necessary to verbalize the positive emotions, which sediment over time memories that strengthen the beauty of the relationship. Enjoying a flower, a gesture a smile can mean a lot to the relationship especially at the beginning and only when more positive emotions have been expressed, negative emotions can be expressed as well, such as frustration when he is late, or he does not come, or does not call. Starting directly with negative emotions can leave the impression of dissatisfaction with the partner, which can drive them away.
Expressing what you feel as a woman should happen naturally, not through victimization or a detached attitude, which makes it difficult to express emotion. On the other hand, the fact that a woman tells her partner that she does not feel good if he is late, for example, does not mean that he will not be late again, but several such confessions must take place for the man to process the information.
No matter how much a man likes a woman, he can’t change much in her presence, at least not overnight, he stays the same and will behave as he is used to, except on first dates, when both are caught up in the fascination of the beginning and behave differently than they usually do. And that doesn’t mean he doesn’t have feelings for her or that he’s indifferent, as long as his general attitude says otherwise.
It takes a lot of love and understanding from a woman for a man to take steps in the direction she wants, and also acceptance of the inherent mistakes that everyone makes. The main thing is for the man to give signals that he is interested and wants to support the relationship, the rest comes by itself.
For a woman, expressing her femininity does not mean becoming a mother to the man she loves, no matter how much he would like this fact, because this way she annihilates his masculinity, and at the same time, it does not mean becoming nagging and insistent, a fact that it also makes the relationship difficult. A man cannot be kept either with gifts and maternal gestures, nor with insistence and with more proof of love than the proof that comes from him. A man will stay with a woman only if he feels that beautiful settlement given by her femininity, which gives him confidence in him and his masculinity, which strengthens the relationship.